Was not easy, I’ll admit. But in retrospect, one of the smartest moves we made. Made our marriage and kids what they are.
When I go to relatives that have one, I’m stunned by what I see. And I’m not talking about the pritzus (which is beyond belief). I’m talking about the violence, the depravity, the total disregard for human life, the treachery you can see (and internalize) in 3 hours.