“people dont understand how hurtful this can be to someone. dont say no just bec of a picture!!!… but bec some boys (not all.. there are some really normal ones out there im sure…..) cant get passed the desire for perfection they wont even give me a chance … its just plain hurtful!!!!!”
I understand why this would you make you feel hurt; however, that does not automatically make it the boys’ fault. If the attraction isn’t there, it isn’t there; it is not necessarily anybody’s fault.