i was discussing this blog with someone over shabbos, who said something intelligent (i thought).
when dating, his focus was “what type of grandchildren would i like to have?”
this woman will have a large influence on the type of house and therefore the type of children you will have, which will have a large influence on the type of grandchildren you will have.
probably a little more important than her weight between the l’chaim and her first pregnancy…..