“What does this have to do with znus?”
How about everything? Don’t even try to tell me that the size 0 wife makes a better wife and mother. Which is fine… just own up to it.
“Being a good yeshiva boy. i think we have the right to the most attractive wife we can get. we never fooled around with all the pretty ones.”
At least someone finally had guts to say it like it is. That is the bottom line, you feel that since you never fooled around you are OWED the prettiest girl you can get. REALITY CHECK: Jewish men aren’t (bederech hateva) what to look at, and good Bais Yaakov girls dont fool around either and we dont ‘demand’ the same perfection you do. At the end of the day the Barbie Doll is also going to have your kids and be with you (hopefully) until the end, after the novelty of it all wears off, so maybe think for a minute is this the person I want to raise my kids and who I want to spend the next 60 yrs with?
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