Assuming that what you were told is not merely heresay or loshon hara, do you know for a fact that the girl is UNAWARE of his issues (if any)? You are, as was eloquently pointed out, VERY much nogaya badavar. As such, you may be suspected of having a hidden agenda (even if you do not). Let someone else who has investigated the facts of the matter, broach a word of caution to the parents. It may very well be the girl and her family know more about him than you think.
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