blinky: I don’t have a problem with them looking to see if she’s pretty, even if they’re local. Also, she should provide a current pic, not one from high school. As for the sister, and mothers, I agree, it’s ridiculous. I don’t blame anyone for not wanting to send a pic, I just don’t think it’s fair to say that anyone who asks for one is bad.
BP Totty: I don’t see why it matters if new2thescene is working or learning, his point stands and I don’t think he’s whining.
Smartcookie: So, why are you so quick to assume (based on your earlier comments) that guys who say no b/c of a pic are judging or looking for perfection?