No one mourns the wicked,
Since when does a man have to pick between one and the other? Let him marry an attractive and sweet girl? Is that too much to ask?
Even the most average guys have a stack of resumes that they choose from. Why should we settle for that sweet unattractive girl? At the end of the day its marriage we are talking about and attraction is an real and an integral part of it.
Looks isn’t a thing that is superficial and stupid. Why should I waste my time going out with girls I am not attracted to? Get me a picture so I wont break their hearts when they like me and I dump them because even though they are really nice and worthwhile people they will never be my wife as the attraction component is missing.
Girls- how many guys did you waste your time with because the guy didn’t get a picture and found you to be unattractive? Wouldn’t you wish that they were able to go out knowing that this guy already likes how you look because he has seen a picture of you? Or are you all so desperate and unsure of yourselves that you refuse to send out a picture with the rational that men who are “shallow” are not for you. WAKE UP! Attraction isn’t a shallow thing- it is real and you have little to loose sending a picture. If they like how you look how shallow can they be? right? If they don’t like how you look then you are not going to go out a 3rd time with him anyways.