Reply To: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up

i agree with squeak 100%. people see a problem and think they know the causes, and no one can argue with them. if they do, people accuse them of not caring.

problem is there, but if don’t know the true causes, can’t possibly know the solution.

if this is the true one and only answer, why aren’t the Lakewood rabbeim insisting that guys only date girls within a certain age range? the answer is because it’s ludicrous. must look for one’s zivug, not a number!

but, again, kol hakavod for caring – and for trying to set older girls up!