about the don’t stalk – i once had a shadchan who knew a boy who flew to my city to go out with me. she wanted to figure out who he was dating. since she suspected it was me, she called me up to find out if i was busy (claiming she had someone for me).
after we broke up, she never called back with her idea. it was all a ruse so she can know who is going out with whom.
and the don’t lie statement: i agree 100 percent.