Reply To: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up

Even if all Shadchanim start focusing primarily on more age appropriate Shidduchim now (and that wont happen, not all, not even most), it wont make enough of a dent in the problem. Im not sure what can be done, but I am sure there are many more people sharper than myself, in positions of power, who can and should offer additional advice on how to rectify the situation.

If everyone doesnt do their Hishtadlus, we are sending thousands of girls to the dogs, and causing major problems in our community.

With all the Bitachon and mentoring in the world, people have their weaknesses, some girls, and hopefully most girls, but not all, will be able to stay on the Derech haYashar, when lonely and hopeless and older, feeling that they have no future in the frum community as far as a traditional frum life.