AZ: I was trying to be Dan Lkaf Zechus. Since none of the boys were in college, does this mean working boys or girls have no shidduchim issues? Does this only apply the the learning boys?
Plus, your comparing apples to oranges. As you clearly missed, I specifically stated a person needs to do his hishtadlus. But, as you mentioned, if Hashem wants you to die at 18, or 25, Hatzalah won’t be able to help you. The reason why we have Hatzalah is because someone in medical distress can not help themselves with their hishtalus, so they call hatzalah. However, if someone is dating they are doing their hishtadlus. You should be asking, a boy sitting in yeshiva without any interest in dating, should you create an Organization to help him?
I once asked my Rebbe when the lotto was at 300 Million dollars. Should I buy 1 ticket or 100 tickets? The response was 1, since anymore might show a lack of bitachon. if hashem wants you to win, your 1 ticket will win. So when it comes to health, we call hatzalah and doctors because we do not know how to heal ourselves. Our Hishtadlus is calling the doctor. But by dating, going on dates is the hishdatlus and creating organizations or taknah might show a lack of bitachon.