Iced, how do you find that it is proof? Yes I am happy that they stayed together because now that I am married there are less complications for me/my family- basically selfish reasons. The damage was done though. Although I am very happy, I don’t have SO much faith in happy marriages. It sounds really horrible, but I never have and I hope that changes. Until I got married I whole heatedly ( and sometimes still do) believe that most married people aren’t really all that happy. My parents legitimately hated each other 75% of the time. The time that my mother was not chewing off my fathers head and thigs were calm , I SO walked on egg shells because I I did not want to be the thing to set anyone off and cause them to fight. I’m just trying to give some perspective from someone who lived through this. My parents wanted to get divorced but I was not privy to the real conversations and for some reason they never did. I want to have a discussion with my mother about it, but I probably should not drudge up the past.
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