Ready now,
I was referring to your views on divorce, not on using christian comparisons to Judaism. That was what was hurtful.
In regards to your personal situation, a fully apologize if i misrepresented the shalom bais of your home. I had no intent to disrespect of insult you. Please accept my apology.
My primary point was that we should not judge all cases by the same grading rubric. All marriages have their own details that as outsiders we are not privy to. So dot make generalizations about how divorce is never an option.