when i was dating (both shidduch and on my own) i never went out with a gu who was more than a few inches taller than me. i have spent enough time around tall men (im 5′) enough to know that i would be uncomfortable, so why even bother going out? does a tall girl have the right to say she doesnt want to go out with anyone shorter than xxxx? if so, a short girl has the same right, in reverse. if not, why in the world not?!?!
re:size
size and dress size are two different things. is she small, a little bigger, overweight, etc. is one thing. is she a size 0-2 is another. whats so great about size 0-2 anyway? lots of women dont lose all the weight after a baby, so just because she is a 0-2 when she gets married doesnt mean she will stay that way. (been there, done that) there are some women who are larger who carry themselves very well, and some tiny women who look emaciated. 0-2 is not always beautiful….