Torah613 – Alas, your knight in shining armor has arrived!!! 😛
No, but seriously, I am in a similar position, and I’ve been told I’m picky, too. It’s important to differentiate between picky and unreasonable. When a person is blessed with many good traits it’s reasonable to want and expect someone just as blessed/talented. If you were morbidly obese, ugly, dumb, and disabled, chas veshalom, it would be unreasonable to expect to marry a slim, handsome, intelligent, capable guy.