DaasYochid -“Health, aside from the valid objections which I raised on that thread, your idea would throw single women above a certain age under the bus.”
You must not have understood me over there. I don’t believe in forcing anybody to do anything. Just like the Org. wants to have guys marry girls the same age, which I don’t personally have anything against, but I don’t see how this will solve anything if the problem is that there are more girls born than boys. It might alleviate some of it, but not solve it. My solution basically almost totally solves the problem. Go over there for details.
Like I was saying this Org. doesn’t force anyone to do anything, but they try persuasion and getting Rabbis to agree with it & push it, etc.
But what they did is that they made an awareness that you can marry s/o the same age. So that is what I’m trying to do, make an awareness that a single girl, even never married, can marry a much older guy whether never married, divorced or widowed. It shouldn’t be a Stigma. It should be something they should consider because the time clock is ticking. Right now I’ve seen women/girls that are/were good quality being picky and not going out with this type or that. And then what happenned was that they got too old and almost noone wants to go out with them because they can’t have kids.