Ski, I fully agree with you. I recently had a nissayon which I had a hard time overcoming. When I asked someone for advice, she asked what I would answer someone asking me that question. My initial reaction was “just dont do it” but then I realized that saying it does not necessarily mean you will be able to follow that advice. Nobody can possibly know what you are going through and nobody can judge. Whether or not your friend was right in repeating what was said to you is something else entirely; the point is it should never have been said. “Don’t judge a person until you walk a mile in his shoes, and by then, you’ll be a mile a way so he won’t know about it!”
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