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mdd- What you are saying is exactly the point the OP is trying to make. You are the classic example of a judgemental person. Tznius is very hard. It’s all very nice that you think women should have self control but who are you to judge? You obviously don’t know how hard it is.
skiaddict is right. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but some people have to learn to keep their mouths shut. It’s 100% Lashon Hara and in my opinion, worse then the breach of tznius. And it is not considered tochacha if you tell it to someone else.
So yes Vayeitzei, I would be surprised if someone told someone else about it. Well ok, I wouldn’t be surprised but I would be upset. It’s Lashon Hara. I think the main problem is that some people feel that their opinion is soooo important and that everybody cares. Well guess what? We don’t