Yet, the earliche men control themselves.”
mdd- Why are you comparing men and women? I’m not minimizing the fact that men have a huge yeitzer hara. I’m trying to say that you, as a male, cannot possibly understand the challenges we women have. I’m not pretending to understand the taivos men have.
My point is that it is not okay to judge people no matter what the situation. And if you do want to judge, keep it to yourself unless expressing your opinion will be constructive. Otherwise it’s Lashon hara.