Hi! Yes there are definitely out of town single frum girls living in Lakewood. While small, it is there.
I currently live in Lakewood, and can help you get settled in meeting other girls.
And don’t forget that Shidduchim come from Hashem. Just do the best you can, make practical decisions, and you’ll be fine. Do not choose a location based on potential dates.
If you’d like to contact me about anything further, I am at your service.
Hatzlachah!