Reply To: Dating/marriage question, Am I realistic…?

I’d say it’s fine to want a wife who does now/ wants to continue to attend or watch a shiur online at least once a week and to try and read from Hashkafa books,etc. It’s a type of personality who enjoys attending shiurim and/or readign hashkafa books. If she’d be able to keep it up with 3 kids and a job is something else, so i specify ‘want’, not ‘expect’. Not sure if I 100% agree with your atrophy lines, but definitely the concept and the type of house that’s looking to continue growing upwards, and i agree thats something to say you are looking for.