Gornit, I still believe the OP is a troll. If you click on his name you will notice this is his first post. What are the odds it would be about a topic that is so basic and guaranteed to be divisive? It’s basically a dinner bell calling for all of those who feel a need to look down on others that they perceive as being less holy to come and spew their crooked views.
I was calling you arrogant because you feel you have the authority and the credentials to diagnose someone you have never met as suffering from a mental health problem simply because they don’t ascribe to your (very extreme) line of reasoning. If that’s not arrogant, I’m not sure what is. I’m not going to sit here and bicker with you, if you want to label members of klall Yisrael as being mentally unhealthy because they don’t care about those in the klall who are overly judgmental, I guess that’s your right. It’s a free country, after all… have at it. I apologize if I sounded overly harsh, but if there’s one thing that gets to me it’s people who think they have a right to dan other Jews who aren’t even doing anything wrong – whether they judge them publicly or in their hearts. It stems from a severe lack of humility, and it’s extremely obnoxious and counterproductive. It’s the ugly side of frumkeit that repels people away from identifying with frum communities and Chareidim.