Reply To: Shidduchim… waiting for the person you have in mind??

I agree that the situation presented sounds unusual (and doesn’t seem to match up), but it seems to me that the OP could be talking about a friend who is maybe 19 or 20. In any event, if the supposed girl in question is overly friendly to a so-called yeshiva guy, then there is a problem there (on several levels). I suspect that there is too much fire in their blood for them to think clearly (which includes presenting the facts clearly). Therefore I suggest to speak with their parents and their rabbeim.