Having read this complex issue, 1 question still eludes me & my spouse badly:- Given that all of these correspondence have us believe that it should be relatively easy for a boy to get married, unlike for a girl, so why is it, that I & my spouse seem to know so many more single men than single women out there? Are we missing something? or are we out of the loop?
I also seem to know a lot of single men and can’t think of any women for them.