147: There is this crazy invention called Soy Milk, or black coffee (that means coffee without milk..crazy…I know) so no waiting is required. Check it out:)
loca: Your right, there is no need to go out, but when you have older kids it’s nice to have “alone” time without people interfering with questions, concerns etc. And yes, we tried “Please do not disturb”, but that did not seem to work 🙂
The purpose of the date is not just about quality time together, but an excuse to NOT sit in sweatpants, but put some effort into the other person; which I feel some of us forgot how to do over the years. But hey, to each their own. What works for me, might not work for you. It’s up to you to find your sweet spot or you can always listen to the OP and find a counseler to help out your marriage. I prefer my way, some prefer counseling.