I have to post again, because I still can’t get over how incredibly shallow your question is.
I’ll grant that there are young men and women who do go out with young women and men, and are perfectly able to marry each other, but don’t anyway.
You think they are being picky. That is an absurd conclusion.
Often, they are unable to get married for psychological and emotional reasons. Maybe they have a hard time forming intimate relationships. Maybe they are scared of commitment. Maybe a million emotional or psychological things.
Why would you fault them for that?
Why would you call them “picky”?
Why would you bizarrely decide it is more of a problem for men than for women?
Suppose they really are just being picky. What does that mean? If you are correct and someone is unable to marry a girl unless she meets some ridiculous checklist, what does that say about them? I would send them to therapy. It sounds like they have some serious perfectionism problem which they are applying to their search for a wife in some way.
But you think that they should just “stop being picky.” Uhuh. I get it.
Here is my suggestion: Post that you take it back, that you apologize to all single people, and that you will never pressure a guy or girl again while they are dating in any way.