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Hey Medium, I think you have a point there. This would never happen in the chassidish world. I’m dating second time around, first time was sit in style.The guys would almost never say no to decent looking normal girl. Sometimes it’s frustrating to always be the one to say no and they get so hurt…all they want is to just get married and get on with the program. Maybe you should start working in the chassidish world;) although I have to say it can take forever until the mothers agree and let their little boys go out which I think is a bit nuts. So I guess it has its pros and cons. On the other hand it would be nice to go out with a guy that really wants and appreciates you for who you are on the inside and uses their brain to try to figure out the girl they’re meeting.