clearheaded: I’m not about to argue with a real “chassidish woman”, but explain to me why there is a “Shalom Task Force”, when it should be obvious (same for the more right/less worldly “yeshivish” world). Otherwise I agree with what you say. B”H women are able to get out of a bad relationship.
so right: Not Mekabel, Choshesh. I find it wierd that if there was a gezairah from the Gov’t that there had to bungalows and men had to be in the city without their wives for two months the gedoilim would Shrei about family and husbands & wives without each other, but some of us do so willingly.
In order for you to convince me, I would like to see proof. I am not attempting to convince you (I have found almost everyone here is not interested, anyway). That is why the word ‘MAY” is capitalized. It is a theory, and clearheaded agrees partially as far as lower expectations.
As far as Gov’t funding, I see the collectors in Shul and at my door. I also see the statistics for communities such as (An unnamed town of Chassidim) and Gov’t funding. If this is an abberation, I would expect proof.
Of course by and large everything is good, but I would think that is true in all “torah” communities. The question posed is why there is less divorce among one type of torah community, and I posited that the expectations of marriage are different (perhaps the chassidim are more “torah true”, I’m not saying its worse, just different). So far I have not been told or proven otherwise.