It’s really hard to answer someone when you don’t know who you’re talking to. I’m not talking about knowing the person “personally”, identity and all. I’m talking about knowing that there’s an authentic person out there asking a genuine question for themselves. I don’t know if you asked this wholeheartedly for yourself. If you did, I apologize for doubting you. However, from the confusion of who wrote this thread, it would seem that others have had a hard time identifying the real writer too.
A silly thread discussing jokes or word games…. no one cares if you carry the kidding around further.
Threads with a more serious tone, where those who are answering are taking the time to think about their responses and answering with a full heart offering “their” truth deserves the same “truth” in kind.
If your questions and needs are authentic, then I’m happy I wrote. If it was just a philosophical discussion, then please, include that in your posts in the future. My kids would’ve loved my attention and I took time away from them to answer you.