justwant,
your welcome to disagree. your right perhaps “never” is too strong of a word. what i mean to say is one should not go into a date with the preconceived notion this is a waste why am i here. the guy will pick up on that negative vibe and thats not fare to him. he deserves a fare shot and if the girl knows shes not interested she shouldnt fake it and go out anyway based on the highly slim chance she might be pleasently surprised. if her gut instinct is saying this is not gonna work before even trying, it usually is correct. if she doesnt know thats a different story. becuase besides enjoying a free meal or some sort of activity that involves the boy to spend money, its genaivas daas