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MorahRach
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Health, you could not be more wrong. I can’t tell if you are trying to make a joke or not, but you are wrong. Being 10 pounds over weight is not the end of the world, it does not mean that you like an unhealthy life. Being 60 pounds over weight is grotesque and that person is in serious need of a life style change. When I was dating if my husband had been 10-15 pounds heavier than he was it probably would have had zero impact on me continuing to date him. Had he been 50-60 pounds over weight? No way because he clearly does not value his health/life. Granted not everyone feels this way I know many over weight people who are happily married, I also have friends who are chubby or who’s husbands are a little chubby and I know my friends would have serious problems if their husbands became ” fat” because it is unhealthy and sets a bad example for your children.