When I got married I took the responsibility to go out and get a job to support our family…I did not ask my Bride to be if her father was going to support us…
Feeding my family, paying their tuition and putting a roof over our heads is my responsibility, not my in-laws…
Marriage is not a Business arrangement
Women should have a stronger say and have an equal stake on who they choose ( be it a full time kollel guy, worker, or mix of both), they should feel like cattle passing potential buyers at an auction….