Reply To: SHIDDUCH CONCERN

Thank you everyone for your feedback. Unfortunately I am still unsure of what to do. I really like him, I just don’t know if I can marry someone who wears grey socks. I feel that if all the serious yeshiva bochurim are wearing black socks, and he chooses to wear grey, there must be a big chisaron in his yiras shamayim otherwise he wouldn’t choose to separate himself from the yeshivishe olam. The shadchan thinks I am reading into his socks too much, but I think it is a legitimate concern. Every time I fold his socks after doing his laundry I’ll be reminded of this chisaron. I don’t know if that is the type of home I want to build. What should I do??