“im sorry, i shouldnt have said it was a horrible question, that was very harsh and not true, it was a good question just the yeshivish part bothered me. im sorry, forgive me?”
from the fact that the thread is titled yeshivish condolences, it seemed to me that the question was whether it is accepted for yeshivish people to give condolences, and that sounds pretty bad to me.
if the question is just wat is an appropriate thing to say to someone who is mourning, that is totally different but thats not how the question was phrased, so that threw me off.