All joking aside, WIY – why do you think it is okay for a guy in shidduchim to go less than perfectly groomed (according to the almighty shidduch standards – this does not reflect my personal opinion), but not for a girl to do so?* Don’t you think that’s kind of a double standard?
*(This is of course with the stipulation that the said lapse in grooming (i.e. wearing sweatshirts) entails that the sweatshirts be properly fitted and not marked with symbols, logos, words, or graphics of any kind.)