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I think the most important factor here is not what some random girl in the street will think when she sees a boy not freshly shaved but rather what it looks like to older people who see you and would consider you for someone they know. So my question is geared towards people who are older and out of the shidduch parsha or know what their parents would think if they saw a guy who had a few days growth of beard but it doesn’t look bad just its not freshly shaved. Does it really give a bad impression or are some older people biased because they are in the business world and in business it is unprofessional to show up with stubble on your face (at least by the non Jews) so working people tend to associate stubble with a lack of being put together. But then if that’s the case a guy should have to always look clean shaven which could mean shaving an extra few times a week which is a pain and takes time. I would do it if its necessary but I really don’t know. I may sound like Im overthinking this whole thing but Im really not. People please weigh in and let me know. Thanks.