Reply To: Popa figured it out.

DY:

Your second reason is pure immaturity; I suppose that can be part of it… But do we want to really pin it on that?

Your first reason is similar to my “wrong” reason in that it is susceptible to the same question: Is that benefit really so great that it is such a large factor in deciding who to marry? You’ll have a whole life together where you can have a zchus in his learning, and there is so much more to marriage than having a zchus in his learning.