Reply To: Popa figured it out.

See also, the most recent yated shidduch forum (parshas yisro 5773).

DY: I’m claiming that the seminaries have convinced them that learning is the most important provision that needs to be provided for the family, so that is why.

Hakatan: Sorry, still sounds like a social sciences professor, and still doesn’t explain why that is so completely necessary that it is a deal-breaker. I mean, these girls are basically saying that it is almost impossible that there will be any other factors about a marriage that can be as important as this. They be crazy.