But I mean, what if they were not exactly doing it for the typical reason? The biggest reason that I am doing sherut leumi next year, is because I was in seminary and I need the following things next year;
1. A re-do of this year.
2. I don’t know what I want to do for a parnossah (the career of the day is medical billing, but that is likely to change…), and I need to get job experience and have something to put on my resume while thinking about what I will do for a parnossah.
3. I wanted to do a shana bet progam, but I need to have the ability to have my bills paid somehow, so I plan on taking night classes, hopefully in a bais yaakov seminary, but I have to wait another month until getting info on that.
And people are saying I can’t get a litvishe shidduch for those reasons?