purple- not that your selfish, but that your desire for her to be married is for you, from what you said. I know you want her to be happy really, but in your fun reply to me, you only mentioned the others and thats what he’s pointing to. If you know it’s not true, skip the message. If part may be, take whatever mussar’s applicable. Dont be offended though, i dont think it was a personal attack.
But it’s true, a bracha is not a promise, segulos are risky ground. Daven for her to have clarity in her dating and an easy time, without too much agmas nefesh, and b’ezras Hashem in the right time she will find the right one