computer777 -“Did you see avhaben’s creditials that you can decide that he is an expert?
avhaben thinks it’s perfectly fine for a husband to dominate his wife. In my view that is called abuse. You can agree with him and think it’s not, but doesn’t make either you or him correct.”
You totally missed my point. I was using him as one of many. The posters have quoted experts saying that they feel most of the time the woman is at fault. I was giving the reason for this occurance. – That there is way too many women calling their situation abuse when in reality it is Not! There are mental health professionals who can decide if your case is abuse or not.
I’m not an expert in abuse, neither is avhaben and neither are YOU!
Arguing about a word is ridiculous. E/o has their own opinion on the definition of domination.
The abuse has to be concrete and each case has to be judged up individually by a counsellor!