Health: Hypocrisy at its’ finest. You can’t blame the spouse, but you can blame a third party, like the teachers
Who said I was blaming the teachers for failed marriages? It was a side point – and completely not meant to blame them for the issues. I was just wondering why they don’t. Sorry for not making that clear…
And to say “If you didn’t get this from your parents or Mechanchim/Rabbeyim, there are mental health professionals that you can go to – even before marriage…” well are there alot of divorces these days or not??
There are..
And who do people rely on for the majority of pre-marital questions?
Usually kallah and chosson teachers. At least thats what I was told when I had the classes that they’re there to help you prepare for whats ahead.
Again I’m not BLAMING them just like you can’t BLAME the parents, or mechanchim bla bla for all the problems. Its golus – this is what the world is today whether we like it or not. I was just wondering how come its not a standard thing that they introduce marriage books and go over them thoroughly during those classes as opposed to just niddah books.