aproudbyg -“at night i didnt get sleep because mostly every night they would be screaming at eachother and i could hear things being thrown and they kept bringing up divorce…and i hat to admit it and it makes me cry at this moment but at times in my childhood i would listen to their fighting in my bed and cry to Hashem and beg Him that if it would help for my parents to divorce so i could be normal.”
Unfortunately, a lot of sick marriages don’t divorce. Birds of a feather flock together. The people who convinced my wife to leave me have worse marriages than I ever had. They also abuse their kids, which me and my wife never did. The reason they don’t divorce is simply because they have every excuse in the world for their behavior, but once they divorce the world sees what they are and the most important thing for them is their outside appearances.