Reply To: To the Parents of Teens

health-im sorry for you:( i understand what your saying i just really wish with all my heart it wasnt like that,but i guess thats what Hashem has made humans like.

morahrach-yes it is a horrible situation i wish i could just open my eyes and wake up from,the throught of my parents divorcing just doesnt seem as bad as i know it should,i know it should send shivers down my spine and cause me to drop to my knees so they wont but i dont think i could ever bring myself like that! i just know it would be simplier for me,yes raise more problems but better for other things. when your mother got help,why is it she knew she needed?did you tell her your feelings? i can feel for your siblings,im the youngest and when my brother left to go to yeshiva we both knew what it ment for me,and things only worsend because sometimes when my parents fought we would go in a room together and talk,but then i was on my own just listening to them,and it happend more and more infront of me,yes i unfortuatnly have done similiar when my mom throught something at me sayng that a girl in my school whos mother died would never treat her mother like that i whispered i wish i was that girl,may Hashem forgive me and help me to never feel that way again,and the awful part is i really felt that way:( and it makes me feel like im a horrible person!, may your baby only grow up knowing and feeling your love for him,im sure you wont repeat those things to him you know the pain, i know i will know for later what not to do,but things like visiting my parents when im older and with kids IY’H scare me,i dont think i could ever expose my kids to that and i know that now! hopefully another year in by then seminary, the thoguht of another year just hurts me,and my mother wants me to go to college in my home state and live at home after sem,im at a loss for words at teh thought honestly