The Gra said that someone who doesn’t eat gebrokts didn’t properly experience simchas Yom Tov for Pesach.
I grew up not eating gebrokts. My father in law eats it, and I was warned that he wouldn’t be very accommodating for me on Pesach with non-gebrokts food. I asked my Rav what to do, and he told me to change my minhag to eat gebrokts.