I’m not sure I understand zahavasd & Wolf who seem to be saying that the problem with shidduchim today is that people are too picky and too quick to find fault. I also find the new cultural norm of finding fault with plastic tablecloths and obsessing about dress sizes to be unseemly, inappropriate & destructive. But health is something we all pray for and beg HKB”H to grant us. I don’t think you can equate someone wishing to go into marriage with a healthy spouse, to all those people out there with lists of criteria full of narishkeiten.
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