Here’s a question for those who would not consider a shidduch with health issues. Let’s say you find and marry someone in perfect health. You have a child. The child has health issues. Do you forget about marrying off that child?
So you’re suggesting that one should date someone with health issues, when (s)he could just as easily date someone without health issues, because there’s a possibility that they will have a child who is unhealthy? I don’t understand your argument.
Or to answer your question directly, no. And that’s not hypocritical.