Just as you would say, “my parents cannot afford to buy us furniture” or parents would say “my budget for the chasanah is very minimal, I can’t afford real flowers and would prefer using g’mach fake flowers, etc.” that is the time to say “we can’t afford to buy a diamond ring, we don’t want the Kallah to feel badly so if she wants, we can buy a nice real setting with a CZ stone, or we can buy a very small real stone, etc.”
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