I find it ridiculous that people feel so obligated to purchase something that they can hardly afford. A ring, yes. But it does not have to be a rock. Making a wedding is such a simcha and to keep taking out loans because the need to purchase things that are so very expensive and have nothing to do with setting up a house is plain silly. Be honest. This is all I can afford. And if someone has a problem with it, than that is not the person you would for your child.
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