I’m sorry that you feel you have to conform to someone else’s idea of what your type is. This is not what people want to hear, but you most likely weren’t excluded by mistake. You were most likely excluded because in fact you don’t meet the shallow and narrowly defined criteria of acceptance, which are set arbitrarily and don’t bear any resemblance to what objective goodness is. Don’t be upset that they mistakenly misjudged you, be upset that you judge yourself by someone else’s idea of quality.
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